What could be the result if I block a covert narc back after he said blocks were going back up, maybe we try this again?
07.06.2025 04:35
Oh the mind games of a narc. It saddens me, no pains me to read another example of narc 101.
the reason you are here, you have questions and they are putting you through toxic control we call the push-pull. Can i diagnose them ? No.
you cant control them
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this block you unblock you block delete unblock you is the equivalant of a petulant child who does not know how to adult and cannot display empathy or use healthy communication. They arent your twin flame, they arent your soul mate and they really are folks who you need to understand arent ever going change
second stage after the intense rush of stage one is the slip from being all good to now being all bad and you get devalued more often then not you wont even be aware you have went from pedestle to shit on a stick.
First is the idealize, securing, grooming mirroring and sometimes love bomb stage. Meet dr jekyl. The nice smooth masked human who has used manipulation to secure you as supply
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in this stage you mistake manipulation for love and are wide open to being vulnerable and you have to understand this is NOT love its a tactic to reel you in
there are stages of the npd relationship cycle and you are in the devalue stage.
They get off on it actually. For some its a form of sadism to watch you agonize while they have you in there cross hairs. Dont allow this person to drag you through a maze of bad behaviour. In the end they will usually discard you and make it look like its your fault. Its a vicious awakening to cluster b but hopefully this response will start you in a different direction where you will find healing and wellness, truth and peace
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i was hoovered 20 years out after no contact and that my friend just tells you who is wearing the crazy pants. They dont want your famous apple pie recipee lets put it that way.
you do have power. You do have agency and you can be liberated when you make a consious effort to quit engaging with them no matter what they throw at you. You do have the ability to say not my monkies, not my circus. They dont disappear even when your life moves on. Some will never hoover you when you cut them off but most either hoover or kerp tabs in you. Never ever , ever accept a hoover itll be worse then the first round i can tell you that.
you cant change them
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You shift away from them, their toxicity, the games and they way they cowardly drag you with them addicted, pining, confused, and this is where you say to yourself this is childs play and it doesnt feel good.
cluster b folks fall into sub chategories such as covert, overt, histrionic, psychopath, sociopath, malignant, somatic and borderline and no they dont all fit into nice little neat boxes and thst can be mind bending trying to figure out according to the dsm -5 where they land and btw most npd folks are either not diagnosed or misdiagnosed and they can be your mother, son, pastor, president or even sleeping in your bed. So this is heavy stuff. Its overwhelming and it is an adjustment to figure out all is not well in the land of oz.
This person has done this tactic before you and will do it long after the final discard (which is coming) with someone else.
The narcs game is control. They block, unblock for a few reasons. We can get into the weeds but this is where we enlighten you how this works.
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However when it comes to toxicity leave that to a psychiatrist or mental health expert to diagnose but you can recignice its not healthy and stop the abuse.
Then its hoover rinse and repeat. These cycles can go on for decades until you say i cant do this anymore and educate yourself in cluster b and find a good therapist.
Ask yourself if others do this to you or you do this to others? Ill bet your answer is no. Thats because this action is a very twisted mechanism designed to hurt, keep you off balance, use as a cloak while they hunt, secure or chase after other supply. They prefer to hold the cards, the control and the longer you play into this the longer healing is going to take.
a true cluster b does not bond. They emmesh and yes they can be codependant
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however you can put a stop by going no contact and doing some hard core work on yourself and this means admitting that when you paired with person you entered into a shared fantasy and the reality is they have a chronic mental health disorder . Its going to take time to heal. Understand the illness and with physical space and disconnection youll hopefully decypher they have a pathology that takes you reprograms your mind and now you are left trying to figure out why they donor have done and its a wake up call.
Normal people dont give you the silent treatment or stonewall. They dont weaponize or withhold sex or intimacy. Normal folks dont engage in control, lies, ommissions, cheating, high conflict, they dont have histories or trails of many effed up relationships and blank chunks of time where they fill in the gaps with all sorts of horrible things they have done theyld lime to keep secrete from you.
This block unblock, delete, wall up on other sites and so forth is only going to stop when you make the consious effort to shift.
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so what will a narc do if you block him? Well most likely try other hoovers. Send out a smear campaign and flying monkeys and do everything to either destroy you or reel you back in. Nothing good comes from engaging with a narcissist. They need to be in control. You arent a human you are supply. Your not in a position where they think of your feelings or thoughts or have concerns … a narc just wants free reign and your submission while they play with you or carry in their agenda behind your back.
they dont fling themselves at hookers and blow, infinite dating sites, profiles, aliasses, porn, addictions and sibstance abuse. This is not someone you want to have a marriage or bring kids into the world with.
you were blocked because you either exposed them, they felt shame, they devalued you and found new supply or they want to see if they can play some more or punish you.
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now youll be entering the next stage which is discard. It means they literally are going to ghost you, or keep you in limbo (if they have not fully secured new or recycled old supply). Or you flee because your sick n tired of being sick n tired or you have become stale supply and they cowardly discard you.
you didnt cause whats going on here
want to stop the brain fog, confusion and feel like your desperate to get out of a situation where it doesnt feel right but your overwhelmed? Seek a therapist that specializes in cluster b or you will just rapid cycle and continue dating one cluster b after another.